OK, we hate drama right, and non of us like to see or get into an argument right? RIGHT
So how does this mostly start then?
Heres my thoughts and I am sure all of you can agree. THIS IS A WEBSITE, of words of expressions. Sometimes these expressions don't come across the way we mean them when the subject is touchy for what someone says or implies its very common to misunderstand what people meant because we can't add a voice to our expression of dialog there for, we can only assume what that person meant by a few words.
NOW if someone says something rude, and you think its RUDE. then lets do this!
(THE ASK AGAIN POLICY)....thats right...ask that person AGAIN to please explain further,cause you want to double check what they are trying to imply, mean, or express or state. Before you act on it!
NOW ISN'T THAT A GREAT IDEA?
This way before we get pissed and start a bunch of drama ON THE SITE FORUMS. Everyone gets into it, from replying nasty to what you thought was rude. This way it can be cleared up better before acting on it and AVOID drama.
NOW if someone gets the ol'mighty flame attach (example words, fuck you, asshole, son of a bitch, etc, etc, etc. now that's! Reason for a complant..and report it to the moderators...or me and tony,so we my handle the matter if you wish not to be involved. and we will carry out the action that needs to be token. As well as they have broken a site rule!!!!
OR if its just a stupid comment and you already asked for that guy to explain what he meant further,and YEP its what ya though. Just a rude comment you didn't like. Well 2 things you can do,TAKE CARE OF IT OFF THE FORUMS AND TAKE IT INTO private messages. OR make a complaint about that post and the mods and me and Tony will look into it for you.
I REALLY THINK THIS WILL CUT DOWN OR ELIMINATE DRAMA on the site.
Sure we might not get along with everyone or not like a person for what ever reason. Just don't express or say rude shit to them on the site.
1 other thing,ALOT of us are close freinds in which we mess with each other and tease. Theres nothing wrong in that if the 2 guys are joking amoung them selfs. Which happen to be REALLY good buddys. So if anyone is doing this PLEASE ADRESS who that comment is for. So no one thinks its for someone else.
I hope we all can agree and start using this method to keep drama down.
P.S. THIS WAS JIMSGOFAST IDEA and what a great idea it is,thanks Jim for the suggestion.