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post #1 of 17 (permalink) Old 09-20-2004, 09:56 AM Thread Starter
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men vs women thoughts

Let's say a guy named Roger is attracted to a woman named Elaine. He asks
her out to a movie; she accepts; they have a pretty good time. A few nights
later he asks her out to dinner, and again they enjoy themselves. They
continue to see each other regularly, and after a while neither one of them
is seeing anybody else.

And then, one evening when they're driving home, a thought occurs to Elaine,
and, without really thinking, she says it aloud: ''Do you realize that, as
of tonight, we've been seeing each other for exactly six months?''

And then there is silence in the car.

To Elaine, it seems like a very loud silence. She thinks to herself: Geez,
I wonder if it bothers him that I said that. Maybe he's been feeling
confined by our relationship; maybe he thinks I'm trying to push him into
some kind of obligation that he doesn't want, or isn't sure of.

And Roger is thinking: Gosh. Six months.

And Elaine is thinking: But, hey, I'm not so sure I want this kind of
relationship, either. Sometimes I wish I had a little more space, so I'd
have time to think about whether I really want us to keep going the way we
are, moving steadily toward . . . I mean, where are we going? Are we just
going to keep seeing each other at this level of intimacy? Are we heading
toward marriage? Toward children? Toward a lifetime together? Am I ready
for that level of commitment? Do I really even know this person?

And Roger is thinking: . . . so that means it was . . . let's see ..February
when we started going out, which was right after I had the car at the
dealer's, which means . . . lemme check the odometer . . . Whoa! I am way
overdue for an oil change here.

And Elaine is thinking: He's upset. I can see it on his face. Maybe I'm
reading this completely wrong. Maybe he wants more from our relationship,
more intimacy, more commitment; maybe he has sensed -- even before I sensed
it -- that I was feeling some reservations. Yes, I bet that's it. That's why
he's so reluctant to say anything about his own feelings. He's afraid of
being rejected.

And Roger is thinking: And I'm gonna have them look at the transmission
again. I don't care what those morons say, it's still not shifting right.
And they better not try to blame it on the cold weather this time. What
cold weather? It's 87 degrees out, and this thing is shifting like a goddamn
garbage truck, and I paid those incompetent thieves $600.

And Elaine is thinking: He's angry. And I don't blame him. I'd be angry,
too. God, I feel so guilty, putting him through this, but I can't help the
way I feel. I'm just not sure.

And Roger is thinking: They'll probably say it's only a 90- day warranty.
That's exactly what they're gonna say, the scumballs. And Elaine is
thinking: maybe I'm just too idealistic, waiting for a knight to come riding
up on his white horse, when I'm sitting right next to a perfectly good
person, a person I enjoy being with, a person I truly do care about, a
person who seems to truly care about me. A person who is in pain because of
my self-centered, schoolgirl romantic fantasy. And Roger is thinking:
Warranty? They want a warranty? I'll give them a goddamn warranty. I'll
take their warranty and stick it right up their ... .

''Roger,'' Elaine says aloud.

''What?'' says Roger, startled.

''Please don't torture yourself like this,'' she says, her eyes beginning to
brim with tears. ''Maybe I should never have . . Oh God, I feel so . ....
.'' (She breaks down, sobbing.)

''What?'' says Roger.

''I'm such a fool,'' Elaine sobs. ''I mean, I know there's no knight. I
really know that. It's silly. There's no knight, and there's no horse.''

''There's no horse?'' says Roger.

''You think I'm a fool, don't you?'' Elaine says.

''No!'' says Roger, glad to finally know the correct answer.

''It's just that . . . It's that I . . . I need some time,'' Elaine says.
(There is a 15-second pause while Roger, thinking as fast as he can, tries
to come up with a safe response. Finally he comes up with one that he
thinks might work.)

''Yes,'' he says.

(Elaine, deeply moved, touches his hand.) ''Oh, Roger, do you really feel
that way?'' she says.

''What way?'' says Roger.

''That way about time,'' says Elaine.

''Oh,'' says Roger. ''Yes.''

(Elaine turns to face him and gazes deeply into his eyes, causing him to
become very nervous about what she might say next, especially if it involves
a horse. At last she speaks.) ''Thank you, Roger,'' she says.

''Thank you,'' says Roger.

Then he takes her home, and she lies on her bed, a conflicted, tortured
soul, and weeps until dawn, whereas when Roger gets back to his place, he
opens a bag of Doritos, turns on the TV, and immediately becomes deeply
involved in a rerun of a tennis match between two Czechoslovakians he never
heard of. A tiny voice in the far recesses of his mind tells him that
something major was going on back there in the car, but he is pretty sure
there is no way he would ever understand what, and so he figures it's better
if he doesn't think about it. (This is also Roger's policy regarding world
hunger.)

The next day Elaine will call her closest friend, or perhaps two of them,
and they will talk about this situation for six straight hours. In
painstaking detail, they will analyze everything she said and everything he
said, going over it time and time again, exploring every word, expression,
and gesture for nuances of meaning, considering every possible ramification.
They will continue to discuss this subject, off and on, for weeks, maybe
months, never reaching any definite conclusions, but never getting bored
with it, either. Meanwhile, Roger, while playing racquetball one day with a
mutual friend of his and Elaine's, will pause just before serving, frown,
and say: ''Norm, did Elaine ever own a horse?''
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post #2 of 17 (permalink) Old 09-20-2004, 10:06 AM
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yup. everyone agrees.....men don't pay attention.
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Quote:
Originally posted by ill_ag
yup. everyone agrees.....men don't pay attention.

It's woman who don't listen.

Case in point, a conversation between myself and my wife Friday evening past.

Rick: Hun, want to go see a movie at the Catlow?

Diane: Sure

Rick: Walk or drive?

Diane: Walk! It's a beautiful evening!

Rick: Great!

Ten minutes later on the walk to the Catlow

Rick: Why are you walking so slow? We are going to miss the start of the movie!

Diane: I'm walking slow, because these shoes hurt my feet!

Rick: Why did you wear them, when are we walking to see the movie?


Diane: They only hurt when I walk in them.


Rick: HUH???!!!! You buy shoes that you have no intention of walking in? That's pretty dumb Diane! And you have 3 degrees and a MBA!


Diane: (Silence and a glare)

5 minutes later


Rick: What are you so quiet?


Diane: (Silence, glare, send out ESP thought of die you bastard!!)



True story.....women are freaking weird

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your story's a perfect example of men not paying attention. your story is about your wife buying shoes that hurt her feet-- not about her not listening to you.

c'mon rick-- get on topic!!
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yup. everyone agrees.....men don't pay attention.
sure, but women don't make sense
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Quote:
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sure, but women don't make sense

They sure don't.


This was a conversation between my ex wife and myself during the first few months of our first marriage:

setting: in the car driving home from eating out

Chris: That was a good dinner.

Jenn: Yeah, it was. Would you like some ice cream?

Chris: Nah.

Jenn: Oh, okay.

2 hours of silence later.

Chris: Will you tell me what's wrong?

Jenn: Yeah, I wanted some ice cream.

Chris: Well, why didn't you say something?

Jenn: I did, I asked you if you wanted some.



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They sure don't.


This was a conversation between my ex wife and myself during the first few months of our first marriage:

setting: in the car driving home from eating out

Chris: That was a good dinner.

Jenn: Yeah, it was. Would you like some ice cream?

Chris: Nah.

Jenn: Oh, okay.

2 hours of silence later.

Chris: Will you tell me what's wrong?

Jenn: Yeah, I wanted some ice cream.

Chris: Well, why didn't you say something?

Jenn: I did, I asked you if you wanted some.


LOL Im not alone
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Quote:
Originally posted by ill_ag
your story's a perfect example of men not paying attention. your story is about your wife buying shoes that hurt her feet-- not about her not listening to you.

c'mon rick-- get on topic!!

Hmmmm I think I made my point Women don't listen

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