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post #1 of 16 (permalink) Old 09-22-2004, 10:13 PM Thread Starter
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how do you know you're good?

ok, so I'm sitting here doing my homework and kinda watching sex and the city out of the corner of my eye....and they bring up this interesting question. Normally I wouldn't go chit-chatting about this on the board...but...i thought it would make for interesting conversation.

How do you know if you're good in bed? I mean, it's interesting because you never really know what the other person is thinking, right?

Really, before the jokes-- I have no ulterior motive in asking this...I just thought it was an interesting topic.
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post #2 of 16 (permalink) Old 09-22-2004, 10:19 PM
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If the other person can't get off, then you're not good, pretty straight forward ...
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If the other person can't get off, then you're not good, pretty straight forward ...
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Good question. Even if you get positive feedback...how do you know if your partner is being honest... or if your being compared ot previous partners that were really bad in bed.

I guess the obvious answer is that if you fidn that sweet spot and she has an orgasm and can't move for the next 15 minutes...you must be doing something right...I hope.
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Re: how do you know you're good?

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How do you know if you're good in bed? I mean, it's interesting because you never really know what the other person is thinking, right?
your partner tells you
  • right after
  • the day after
  • the night after
  • the week after
  • the month after
  • ...

until you get tired of each other and then move on
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post #7 of 16 (permalink) Old 09-22-2004, 10:25 PM
 
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... alright Alison.... here's where you give us some useful female insight... so we can make our women happier.
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its true.. cause your partner is never gonna tell you.. "Man that sucked"
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ok. well. you all bring up some interesting points.

1-- just because he can't do it that's doesn't mean you're bad. I mean, it CAN mean you're bad-- but the two don't go hand in hand, right?? (unless guys are lying when they say "it's not you")

2-- i can't really tell you what to do. First off, it's true that all women are different. Second (and if things weren't already confusing) I want different things at different times. Sometimes it's the relationship I'm in, sometimes it's the mood I'm in.

I would say that communicating about sex is a good way to make it better...but then I have dated guys who talk WAY too damn much about it...and DURING it! It's like sleeping with Bob Eueker.

I CAN suggest one thing, though for all guys. Please...please...PLEASE...just at least trim a little, ok?
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I CAN suggest one thing, though for all guys. Please...please...PLEASE...just at least trim a little, ok?
Who doesn't? not trimming is so '70s Unless you're 13 like wSE, then you don't need to
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ok then. well maybe the better question is, how do you tell someone when they're bad? or when they're good except for ONE little thing that bothers you? that's happened to me before. what a crappy situation to have to break the bad news to someone....
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Re: how do you know you're good?

Ok, here it goes IMO.....

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...How do you know if you're good in bed?... ...you never really know what the other person is thinking, right?
If your a guy, you're good when you can give her 2 or more big orgasms (as was told to me by a girlfriend)
...and you KNOW there's no way she's faking because you have the scratches on your back to prove it.

If you're a girl, you're good when you move around and occasionally take control of the position and/or movements. To sweeten the deal, you can finish off with a BJ.

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...maybe the better question is, how do you tell someone when they're bad?...
You tell them by breaking up with them. UNLESS, they are sooo perfect for you in every other way and that isn't an option. If that's the case, then you should be able to tell them straight out *or* the next time you're in bed just "direct" them to do what you'd like them to do. I think it's easier for a girl to tell a guy what to do than vice versa. We'll do what ever you say as long as it doesn't stop.

You'll have to PM me for any X rated explainations.

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post #13 of 16 (permalink) Old 09-22-2004, 11:39 PM
 
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Another question I have is whens guys want some and the girl doesnt thats fine but when the girl wants some and the guy dosent all hell brakes loose,why is that?
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Another question I have is whens guys want some and the girl doesnt thats fine but when the girl wants some and the guy dosent all hell brakes loose,why is that?
When the hell does that happen? I'm always willing to sit back and enjoy the ride.
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post #16 of 16 (permalink) Old 09-23-2004, 07:10 AM
 
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You know you're good when.........

-They stay with you even though you're a prick 90% of the time while not having sex.

-when she can't get up for 10 minutes because her knees are weak.

-if she swallows.
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