This past week my wife left me. And she seems like she is not interested at all in trying to reconciliate. It isn't like I didn't see it coming or that it was a surprize. I am not even to sure I care. I do hurt all over but I don't think we could ever fix what was broken. I am sure this is one sided but our problems were because (in her words) "Your not emotional enough". If I knew what that was I might be able to fix it but she didn't want to tell me. I thought I treated her good. For example....
-Never said no if she wanted to do something (wasn't controling)
-would leave token gifts in her car at work (roses,cards,food,ect.)
-If I didn't have time to shovel the driveway I at least shoveled to her car.
-would bring small gifts home and said "it reminded me of you!"
-Occasional breakfast in bed.
-Would open doors (car, store, ect) alot but not always.
-If she asked me for help it would be done.
-of course there is the I love you and your ----- looks good.
I did other things but that would get to long. I am not sure what else I could of done. Maybe you ladies out there can give me some insight. I would hate to screw up the next relationship. On Monday I am going to be calling a lawyer to start the divorce proceedings and most likely bankruptcy.
The good news is I should have more time for riding. Wens night at BWW and strats this summer should be easier to make.