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The Plan: Be thereShe's Moving into the Corner Office
There are 2 nights when every straight woman wants a man in her bed: New Year's Eve and her birthday. Leave her solo and you're giving her permission -- and reason -- to cheat. And remember, birthday sex is about the birthday girl. Presents are good, too. Especially jewelry.
The Plan: Brag about your woman's promotionShe's Moving In with You
"Most guys make the mistake of not doing enough to celebrate their girlfriends' accomplishments," says Scott Haltzman, M.D., a clinical assistant professor of psychiatry and human behavior at Brown University. "When she sees you honoring her, she'll feel as valued by you as she does at work."
Translation: She won't look for that emotion elsewhere -- like in the marketing veep's bed.
The Plan: Make it clear that you're thinking of living together as a starting point
Talk about the future. Talk about her in your future.
The Plan: If you are cheating or have cheated before, confess and apologizeShe's Not Getting Enough
A survey conducted by Peggy Vaughan, author of The Monogamy Myth, showed that 86 percent of couples who discussed one partner's affair were still married, compared with 59 percent of couples who barely talked about it.
If you're not cheating, you have one paranoid woman on your hands. She probably has low self-confidence. Your job: Compliment her, sincerely, specifically, and often.
"You can make her feel better about herself so she won't become vulnerable to these unfounded suspicions," Fischoff says.
The Plan: Have more sex
If she's the one who doesn't want sex, investigate why. Fix it. Get naked.
The Plan: She sucks -- let her go