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EX is at it again!! Whatta CU Next Tuesday!!

Gotta present in the mail....fukn court papers from the ex demanding more child support. Had a feeling this was gonna happen...house purchase is a matter a public record...she needs a life!! Get this shit!!

1. She's trying to have me held in contempt of court for "failure to disclose change of employer and change of of income" I have ILCS 750 5/505 memorized. I have to notify a change of employer within 10 days, thats fukn hilarious. Been self employed for almost 2 years, 1099's and everything. Plus its only a big deal if I skip out on payments. I have no order of withholding. I mail check directly to the state. How's that for responsibility!! But there are no provisions for a change of income. Child support orders are not up for automatic periodic review.

2. She is also trying to have me held in contempt for failure to provide my "dog grooming price list" as if thats a clear indication of my income.

3. More contempt charges..failure to provide plaintiff or court with government documents (tax records) regarding my income....Some divorce decrees and child support orders have provisions for these to be turned over each year by a certain date....not in any of my papers. I was never ordered to supply these. She has to file a motion for discovery for these.

4. Even more contempt....wants to be granted back support because it "appears" that my income went up sometime between the order entered July 18, 2007. and now. She says my support was decreased through false pretenses...at the time of the order my earnings were $XXX. My lawyer showed the judge the documentation and the judge found nothing fishy and slammed the gavel. At the time it was legit I was just starting this career and I wasn't making alot. My ex agreed to the order in front of the judge!! WTF!?! THere is no back support, there is no arrearage...alll seh can do is get more money from the "AGREED" order forward. Besides I'm current, actually I'm ahead on payments. I make more money "NOW" so she is entitled to more...oh well

5. Now for the bullshit!!! she wants the judge to grant her the tax exemption for the years I took it as part of our divorce decree. She wants the judge the give her my tax refunds for the last 2 years...even though I'm current on all support!!!

6. She also wants all bank records with my name on them...hope she's gotta good forensic accountant...My name is on my personal account, my fiance's account, both of my parents accounts, both of my parents business accounts. God luck with that one
Oh, and she is doing all this without a lawyer...The grammar and spelling on her petitions are 5th grade at best. They are unorganized and the law(s) she sites are innaccurate. She doesn't know court procedure and I think I can get this thrown out or simply beat it at a hearing.

7. SHe also alleges that I get paid in cash under the table...even if that were true I could never admit that in open court, That's basic 5th amendment right there!!!

I'll get my tax records for the last 3 years. My bank statements for the last
90 days ( all of which are water tight ) As far as her making the claim against my new house purchase...my RN girlfriend makes terrific money along with a steady stream of child support. I took the mortgage out in my name and through some creative paperwork the mortgage broker inflated my income for the purpose of the loan...My fiances credit is not the best but our combined income qualified the loan.
i figure to offer my ex $75, $150 total more a week to leave me alone...if she balks at it...I'll be happy to spend $10K on a lawyer to make her life hard...I've done this before!!!!

Done ranting now.
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Sounds like she is either really evil.. or.. you REALLY pissed her off...

That said.. You're getting married again eh?

Sounds like you're a touch that stove a few times kinda guy
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Heres a kicker. Get a goddamn good ass lawyer and file for full custody. Clearly shes insane.
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Heres a kicker. Get a goddamn good ass lawyer and file for full custody. Clearly shes insane.
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I'm getting raped paying 30% of my net to the ex for child support. She already asked me if she can move out of state and get sole custody.

Number one: No, you can not have sole custody. If you become a heroin addict and the girls starve to death eating ketchup and mustard packets, I can't do anything. If she wants to send them to a polygamy institute, I have no say. No way is that happening.

Number two: No, you can not move out of state without my written consent. When will I see my kids? Or when will these little girls get to see their daddy? Hell no! I want to be as close to them as possible for as long as possible. I grew up without my dad nearby only seeing him once a year, I turned out fine, but I'd rather not put my kids through that.


This isn't about the parents here. This isn't about making her life harder, or your life being so tough. This is about caring for the kids and looking out for their best interest.

I know every story is different, and I know that it's hard being served papers, but one thing I hope that every parent would keep in mind is that your kids are worth more than any stupid court document or dollar bill.
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I grew up without my dad nearby only seeing him once a year, I turned out fine
On a lighter note....ya think
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My story,

My daughter's 17. will be 18 in Sept. after 17.5 years, never having to go to court, been there for my daughter in every way a good dad should be, paid and agreed amount of child support and then some, agreed on everything with no complaints....NOW her mother decides she wants to take me to court!! And it isn't money as to why she's taking me to court. What set it off was an arguement we had over a car! So now she wants to try to get back support for 17 years and 20% of my net income.

17.5 years and now she wants to take me to court! UNBELIEVABLE

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Sucks what you're going through, but this part kind of makes me grin:

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...my RN girlfriend makes terrific money along with a steady stream of child support.
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I took the mortgage out in my name and through some creative paperwork the mortgage broker inflated my income for the purpose of the loan...
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I feel ya man. This shit scares the fuck out of me. My headache begins on the 15th of this month when I go to court for custody and child support.

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Remember your ex went from having two incomes in one house down to one income. Child support is something the kids rely on to survive. Kids are NOT cheap. They need your money to survive in this.

Focus on the kids.
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Remember your ex went from having two incomes in one house down to one income. Child support is something the kids rely on to survive. Kids are NOT cheap. They need your money to survive in this.

Focus on the kids.
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At least you got served court papers in the mail. I got served at work!

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She's not hurtin for cash....she remarried a sugar daddy who makes 100k a year, drives a beemer and just purchase a new home...she also gets child support for her other kid. 8k a year from me is more than enough to care for my kid i don't care what the law says
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First of all, if you did have a change in income your ex is allowed to ask for an increase in child support including back child support from the day you started making more money... and yes the judge will grant it to her. Now on the other end, if you ever make less money you can ask that the child support be decreased. For the tax returns, most likely the judge won't change that since it was already agreed to in the divorce. She's probably just pissed cause she's not getting the extra $300 stimulus check for claiming a child.

Secondly, just because she married a rich man it doesn't mean he pays a penny for the child. He probably doesn't want to support the child which is why she is asking you for more money. Hells, the fact she doesn't have a lawyer makes it seem like the sugar daddy doesn't let her spend his money either.

BTW- Good luck hiring a lawyer and only spending $10k on it. From the sounds of this chick she is crazy and is just trying to piss you off so most likely this would drag on a long time. I'm on the opposite side and my ex husband was dragging out the custody case even tho he's the one who sued me and it's almost two years later and over $75k in legal bills I've paid.


For anyone else who is bitching about what you pay in child support, you seriously need to STFU. Children are expensive and if you can't afford them or didn't want to have them then you should have worn a fucking condom. I fucking hate hearing guys bitch about paying child support. If the amount was court ordered, then obviously there is a reason for the amount set and the judge says you can afford it. It might seem like you are paying a lot of money to your ex but I'm sure it's not enough to cover half the expenses. Child support covers a portion of the rent/mortgage of the home the child lives in, the utilities for the home, groceries, clothing, school supplies, field trip expenses, gas for driving the child to and from school/day care/doctors visits/etc., cold medicine/prescriptions, toiletries, diapers, formula... I can keep going because there are a ton of other small misc expenses that I'm sure you don't think about. Chances are your ex is still spending more than you are on your child.

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First of all, if you did have a change in income your ex is allowed to ask for an increase in child support including back child support from the day you started making more money... and yes the judge will grant it to her. Now on the other end, if you ever make less money you can ask that the child support be decreased. For the tax returns, most likely the judge won't change that since it was already agreed to in the divorce. She's probably just pissed cause she's not getting the extra $300 stimulus check for claiming a child.

Secondly, just because she married a rich man it doesn't mean he pays a penny for the child. He probably doesn't want to support the child which is why she is asking you for more money. Hells, the fact she doesn't have a lawyer makes it seem like the sugar daddy doesn't let her spend his money either.

BTW- Good luck hiring a lawyer and only spending $10k on it. From the sounds of this chick she is crazy and is just trying to piss you off so most likely this would drag on a long time. I'm on the opposite side and my ex husband was dragging out the custody case even tho he's the one who sued me and it's almost two years later and over $75k in legal bills I've paid.


For anyone else who is bitching about what you pay in child support, you seriously need to STFU. Children are expensive and if you can't afford them or didn't want to have them then you should have worn a fucking condom. I fucking hate hearing guys bitch about paying child support. If the amount was court ordered, then obviously there is a reason for the amount set and the judge says you can afford it. It might seem like you are paying a lot of money to your ex but I'm sure it's not enough to cover half the expenses. Child support covers a portion of the rent/mortgage of the home the child lives in, the utilities for the home, groceries, clothing, school supplies, field trip expenses, gas for driving the child to and from school/day care/doctors visits/etc., cold medicine/prescriptions, toiletries, diapers, formula... I can keep going because there are a ton of other small misc expenses that I'm sure you don't think about. Chances are your ex is still spending more than you are on your child.
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So I knew about the changing employers but if you get a raise you have to notify child support services? Just asking for my knowledge for the future.
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Child support covers a portion of the rent/mortgage of the home the child lives in, the utilities for the home, groceries, clothing, school supplies, field trip expenses, gas for driving the child to and from school/day care/doctors visits/etc., cold medicine/prescriptions, toiletries, diapers, formula... I can keep going because there are a ton of other small misc expenses that I'm sure you don't think about. Chances are your ex is still spending more than you are on your child.
And that all increases and decreases as you make more or less money? Luckily I'm not in this position, but it seems strange to me to think if you all of a sudden make more money after getting divorced, that you should pay more court-ordered support to your spouse.

I understand providing for your kid, and if you make more and are better off then you can afford to get them the snow board equipment, take them on trips, etc. but why should that mean you should be ordered to give your ex more money so they get to determine how the money should be used.

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