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Kids are expensive.
Check this out
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/entertainment/3719452.stm
Rapper P Diddy has been ordered to pay $35,000 (ÂŁ19,671) a month in child support for his 10-year-old son.

I mean.. How is she supposed to support that child in any kind of decent lifestyle without an additional $8,500 a week tax free? I ask you??? Plus I am sure she is putting in at least as much (if not more) of her own money into raising the child.. So... According to my estimate that kid must cost at least close to $20,000 a week to clothe and feed!!@#!

Well.. better hold off having kids till I am making over $1m/yr after taxes... Guess it'll be a few more years...










or perhaps there is a little bit of greed...
nah.
 
Kids are expensive.
Check this out
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/entertainment/3719452.stm
Rapper P Diddy has been ordered to pay $35,000 (ÂŁ19,671) a month in child support for his 10-year-old son.

I mean.. How is she supposed to support that child in any kind of decent lifestyle without an additional $8,500 a week tax free? I ask you??? Plus I am sure she is putting in at least as much (if not more) of her own money into raising the child.. So... According to my estimate that kid must cost at least close to $20,000 a week to clothe and feed!!@#!

Well.. better hold off having kids till I am making over $1m/yr after taxes... Guess it'll be a few more years...











or perhaps there is a little bit of greed...
nah.
Damn, I need to find a rich guy like that and get knocked up from him.

Sad thing is I bet the mom doesn't even invest any of that money... she will somehow convince herself that her son needs to have $500 jeans and "her son" needs to live in a multi million dollar mansion.
 
My story,

My daughter's 17. will be 18 in Sept. after 17.5 years, never having to go to court, been there for my daughter in every way a good dad should be, paid and agreed amount of child support and then some, agreed on everything with no complaints....NOW her mother decides she wants to take me to court!! And it isn't money as to why she's taking me to court. What set it off was an arguement we had over a car! So now she wants to try to get back support for 17 years and 20% of my net income.

17.5 years and now she wants to take me to court! UNBELIEVABLE

p.s. we were never married (Thank GOD!)


Ouch, hope what you contributed is on record.

I am so glad I am still single, the only thing my kids want is high octane fuel and new motor oil.
 
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WTF? So you are falsely reporting to her, the judge, child support enforcement agency or whoever that your income is lower than it really is? I don't care if you think $8k a year is enough to support your child, that is a total scumbag move. God I hope I misunderstood what you wrote.
NO! AT THE TIME OF THE ORDER MY INCOME WAS $XXX IT was a new career and income fluctuated!!! I dinn't get an accurate read of what I was earning till I recieved my 1099. It takes about 6 months of averaging to know what you earn. I followed the order as it was written.
Do you have any idea the hell i would have to go through if my income dropped??? Ya usually get screwed!!! Hpoefully we can work out a deal where I turn over my tax records each year and adjust it up or down.
Its up to her to ask the court for more money and for the court to find that circumstances have changed.

Its not like I did this for any length of time either
 
ahhhhhh....thank you to everyone who has posted up. You just confirmed my thoughts on not to have kids. I am happily married, however i can't help sit here and sweat a little after what these chicks are puttin' you guys through. wow, is anyone here happily married?

Maybe we should change the name of this group to:
CLSDGAFBTEX.com
Chicagoland single daddies getting ass fucked by there Ex's!!

Daaaaaang!
 
Funny how when a father gets hit with support its in the hundreds of dollars a week, but when a mother gets hit with it its $25/month. Sad thing is thats what my brothers ex was ordered to pay after he got full custody. Think he only got 3 or 4 payments from her over the last 16 yrs.
 
Also, here's a tip. ALWAYS meet a girl and get married under an alias name.
WTF were you guys thinking anyways giving our your real names, incomes and shit? Geez man get it together next time will ya?
 
ahhhhhh....thank you to everyone who has posted up. You just confirmed my thoughts on not to have kids. I am happily married, however i can't help sit here and sweat a little after what these chicks are puttin' you guys through. wow, is anyone here happily married?

Maybe we should change the name of this group to:
CLSDGAFBTEX.com
Chicagoland single daddies getting ass fucked by there Ex's!!

Daaaaaang!
Thats funny

I don't mind paying child support, I just want to always be ahead of the courts. I want to make sure I am doing everything according to the law so that way I dont have to join the being in jail forum because I made a stupid mistake with laws and procedures you know.
 
I liked the C U Next Tuesday part...we used to say that to our customers at the car dealerships that we couldn't stand as they were leaving:lmao:

That or my other favorite, telling people that they Couldn't Understand Normal Thinking:lmao:

Not that I would actually call that to someone's face, but you know everybody thinks it
 
Damn this is messed up. I feel for you man, the same is happening to my brother in law. Good guy, he payed this chick like geewiz did for a while, then she goes to court and tells the judge she never got a dime from him for their daughter :bangin. He showed the judge all of his checks he could prove, anything else he paid her was thrown out, so he had to pay back support :(. Guys, learn from this, if you have a newborn, don't fuck around, get a DNA test and go to the state immediately to put a child support order in place. It will be ten times worse paying her personally and hoping on her good graces she won't take you to court, cause that will almost never happen in today's world. Now after 2 years from the previous proceedings, he has paid the back child support and is caught up, but apparently that isn't good enough, she is going for 1.5% interest compounded monthly on that back support now :bangin. It is quite a shame that child support is now being used as an extortion method. Like that PDiddy case, what kid needs 20k/week for food and clothes :laughing. If it is really about the kid, then the parent should have to prove the money is being spent on kid, but there is no accountability there, just as long as they take money from you everything is G2G. My brother and law is trying to work with the mother to try to set their daughter up for college, and she looks at him like he is crazy and tells him he will have to pay for it cause she isn't going to do a damn thing about it :(, a piece of work some of these people are. He got duped big time, she showed no signs of this type of behavior earlier on in their relationship, now she is the constant thorn in his side. Every time he starts to live life and feel good, she comes up with something new to take him to court, and just like Erz, she gets extra satisfaction serving him at work :(.
 
Maaaan, this shit is really starting to scare me. I'm cool with my baby's mama right now. I wonder what the future holds for me.
 
Maaaan, this shit is really starting to scare me. I'm cool with my baby's mama right now. I wonder what the future holds for me.

It could be lots of pain, but you can minimize it now by making sure you are doing everything by the book. Don't be like Wesley Snipes and try to sneak around the system, you get doubly fucked doing that. Take the initialize and get this stuff straightened out with the state now. Whatever you pay her, needs to be documented by the state, and worked through the state. BTW, the state records can sometimes be erroneous, you need to keep track of the payments and make sure everything is on the up and up as well with them. Do those things, and that is half the battle. :laughing I have been schooled by him, he keeps me updated on all of this, which is why at this point I am seriously considering never having kids. I may just be content hanging out with my nephew every once and a while and call it a day :).
 
Maaaan, this shit is really starting to scare me. I'm cool with my baby's mama right now. I wonder what the future holds for me.
Let me manage your money. She can't touch me.:lmao:
 
It could be lots of pain, but you can minimize it now by making sure you are doing everything by the book. Don't be like Wesley Snipes and try to sneak around the system, you get doubly fucked doing that. Take the initialize and get this stuff straightened out with the state now. Whatever you pay her, needs to be documented by the state, and worked through the state. BTW, the state records can sometimes be erroneous, you need to keep track of the payments and make sure everything is on the up and up as well with them. Do those things, and that is half the battle. :laughing I have been schooled by him, he keeps me updated on all of this, which is why at this point I am seriously considering never having kids. I may just be content hanging out with my nephew every once and a while and call it a day :).
I saved all my receipts. So far I've got all my bases covered, I think. I've got court on the in a couple of weeks to get the child support and custody situation ironed out. I have no problem supporting my child financially. Whatever he needs, I got it. Not even an issue. Its the other things that have been mentioned that worry me.
 
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