...if you were in my shoes Saturday night. I'm not big at going out clubs or going out to Lincoln Park meat markets. I am married and occasionally my wifes friends or siblings drags us out to these places. Saturday night we went out to a couple of places in Lincoln Park. The first place we went was big time crowded. We went in and found a place to stand out of the way but still had to let people squeeze by now and then. One guy, after I gave him room wanted to hit on a girl that was next to our group got behind me and gave me a clearly intintional push to get next to this chic. I was pissed, so I shoved the guy back and he immediately backed off and apologized to me. No biggy but now the wife is getting a bit perturbed with me since I am supposed to be out having a good time. OK...an Hour or so later we go to a different spot, again crowed and a guy once again gives me a shove. (these are shoves not just your regular crowded bar bumps) I just backed up a bit to let him know it wasn't ok. On his way back the guy comes from behind me and fricn' shoves me again and bends me ove a nearby table. I get up and let him have it and exchange some words and he leaves. Then I head for the bathroom. When I come out my wife tells me that a friend of one of the guys that came with us didn't know she was married and she walked away when he started hitting on her but he smacked her in the ass when she turned around. I'm pissed:mad . I don't blame him for hitting on my wife cause he didn't know she was married, but he disrespected her regardless. What would you have done at this point???